Networking can suck.

Probably a title that will suck some people in.  But, one that I also think is true in this case.  Let me first say that I had a great time this week networking with some people here in Dallas.  There were some friends from the National Network Of Youth Ministry in town and I drove out to spend time with them on Tuesday night and on Thursday at lunch.  I enjoyed being with them and was glad to build new relationships and strengthen older ones.  But, it was a long ways from my house and today in particular involved driving out in the middle of nowhere for a meeting.  It was a good meeting because it involved network leaders from all over the DFW area but it still sucked to drive so far.

So here's my thought.  Networking can suck.  It would have been much easier to just stay in my office and hang out with my team all day and then walk home for lunch.  The reality though is Networking is not supposed to be easy. It's hard but the results are so much better.  I like NNYM's slogan "We are better together" I 100% agree with this statement and that is why I drove way out of my way to be involved with this amazing group today.  I need to always remember that it is not about me, it's not about my church and my life and my beliefs.  Following Jesus and pursing students is a "kingdom" thing and there should be times that I have to get outside my life/world and connect with some amazing people who have it figured out way more than me.

So Networking sucks but that doesn't stop me.

Comments

[adam mclane]

Word. As much as it's weird, I love getting together with youth workers in my town.

[Sean Weigler]

It is interesting you posted on this because I am currently networking for a new job. I think networking is God's way of stretching us and shaping us so we are equipped to go out and make disciples of Jesus Christ. It is good to see other perspectives in life and networking is a great way to do that.

[Len Evans]

Lars, I like you more & more. Looking forward to hanging out in Atlanta.

[Tina Hidy-Marlin]

Amen brother. After spending many years and lots of blood, sweat and tears to network youth ministers, it was worth every ounce of energy. Years later, I still hear from those in the group about how the network supported them and bouyed them to reach the plans God put before them.

[Doug Clark www.youthworkers.net]

Paul (the apostle, not the Fleischmann) told us to "be diligent to preserve the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace." No surprise that "diligent" would involve effort! But right...it's worth it. Thanks Lars; it was awesome to get to know you better this week!